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Eating in style!

Filed under: Baby — groovymarlin @ 3:59 pm November 27, 2006

Grandpa Bill decided he wanted to get Veronica a high chair for Christmas. He instructed me to pick one out and basically send him the bill. Aren’t grandparents the greatest? So I got her this nice Graco high chair, and here she is enjoying it. Not only does she enjoy eating in it, but when I put toys on the tray for her she’ll pick them up and wave them around, and often bang them loudly against the tray (this amuses her to no end). She also kicks and bounces her feet non-stop, even while she’s eating!

It was a weekend of big milestones for our girl. She turned five months on Sunday. Over the long holiday weekend, she ate a variety of baby food in addition to her formula: squash, carrots, sweet peas, and rice cereal. She really seems to enjoy eating from a spoon now, where just a few weeks ago she grew impatient when I tried and cried for her bottle. Now she opens her mouth, grunts at me if I’m not spooning fast enough, and smacks her lips if she’s really enjoying something!

We also let her roll around on the floor on a soft blanket quite a bit, and she can roll herself from side to side. She can almost roll herself onto her tummy, and from there, onto her back, all by herself. With a little help from us it’s a breeze! She can’t quite crawl or creep, but she has figured out that if she lifts and swings her legs back and forth, and rolls to one side or the other and back, she can maneuver herself around the blanket pretty well.

Why People Think They Dislike MMOs

Filed under: Games — groovymarlin @ 11:22 am November 20, 2006

I read a great post on Terra Nova this morning, about why some people studiously avoid MMOs. At a time when MMOs like WoW are taking over the known universe (and I say that only somewhat facetiously), why is it that some people are not only unfamiliar with these games, but actually purposely avoid them? The post on Terra Nova talks about many of the reasons, and it’s a really well-written and interesting post.

I’d like to give my personal responses to some of the theories presented, just for the hell of it.

“Some people simply refuse to play a monthly fee on top of paying for a game. ”

Fair enough. However, there is a pretty fun MMO out there that does not have a monthly fee – Guild Wars. The last expansion was awesome, and while the box itself was expensive, so are standalone RPGs like Elder Scrolls: Oblivion. I guess this is just a matter of preference for most people, like satellite radio: I pay for Sirius, and enjoy it very much, but a large part of the population still can’t imagine paying for radio. Just like way back in the day, people couldn’t imagine paying for television when cable started. I think most people would come around, if this was their only anti-MMO bias.

“…people don’t feel like they have the time for an MMO, even if they spend lots of time playing videogames otherwise.”

Well there’s some validity to that concern, though many games make it a lot easier now for the casual player. I think the key here is, plenty of people DO spend lots of time playing other types of games, and if they really analyzed the time spent on those games vs. the time they’d spend in an MMO, they’d see that it equals out, for the most part. I certainly feel the pain of time investment myself, now that I have a baby. But I’ve found it’s still fun and easy to get in some meaningful time in the evenings after she goes to sleep, and sometimes on weekends when my better half takes over. Let’s be honest – when you have a job and responsibilities, you’re never going to spend hours and hours playing ANY game!

“Tied to the previous issue is the idea that one’s time is not one’s own in an MMO. For a lot of people, having to adhere to a guild’s schedule or priorities is a responsibility they are unwilling to take on. ”

I feel the pain there too, and all I can say is, “choose your friends wisely.” The thing is, for every serious raiding guild in a game like WoW, there’s another guild made up of people who are casual, don’t want to spend hours raiding, and just want to have fun together. You just have to keep looking until you find them.

“A lot of people complain that it is too hard to just jump into an MMO and start playing.”

I remember my first MMO (DAOC) and what it was like when I started – I was a real “noob” and knew nothing. However, I found that people were generally kind to me and even helped me out, as long as I was polite, respectful, and patient. I see this from the experienced point of view now – if a noob asks questions in a polite way, doesn’t beg, doesn’t shout in all caps, and generally acts in ways that would be considered appropriate in any online or real forum, I’m willing to help them. This is not limited to the MMO world – anyone who’s participated on an online message board or forum pretty much knows how to act (and how NOT to act) in order to gain people’s respect and cooperation.

“Although it’s appealing to play with others, it is a double-edged sword in a level-based system where people have to play at a similar rate in order to be able to continue to play with each other.”

The author on T-N points to the sidekicking system of City of Heroes as one solution to this problem, and that’s a good one. I wish more MMOs had options like that. On the other hand, I’ve found that most of my friends in MMOs have alts of various levels, and no matter what level I am it’s usually possible to find someone to play with.

“Many standard videogame players, especially those attracted to adventure/RPG genres, perceive that MMO gameplay is extremely non-linear with too few concrete goals…”

I guess I just disagree with that. I mean, if you’re into first person shooters or platformers I could see where you might have this complaint. However, if you’re already into RPGs, then you’re used to a certain amount of open-endedness. The solution to this, if true, is to quest. WoW has bar none the best questing system of any game, and will give a player all the linear progression they can handle.

“A LOT of people fear becoming addicted…”

If you have an addictive personality, you can become addicted to any kind of game, not just an MMO. Maybe gaming is not for you, if that’s the case! Even so, I’ve found that game addictions are usually temporary. Everyone burns out eventually, and it doesn’t require losing a job/spouse/home to do it!

“Finally, many non-MMO gamers think that MMOs mean, by definition, PvP, or more accuratel,y open PK-ing.”

Obviously a misconception, and I guess the only way to get around that is to spread the word that not every MMO is full of PK-ers, and most MMOs, even the ones that DO feature PK-ing, are now designed in such a way as to protect those who are just starting out.

It was an interesting article on Terra Nova and a fascinating topic to those of us who do enjoy MMOs. I personally can’t imagine going back to playing only offline, solo games. I recently got into the closed beta for WoW’s upcoming expansion, The Burning Crusade, and I had so much fun this weekend (even with all the server crashes), I’m just drooling for the January release! I guess if you’re either an MMO person or a non-MMO person, I am definitely an MMO person. But I also think there’s a little MMO person in all gamers, if they are willing to give it a try!

Flickr!

Filed under: Baby, Technology — groovymarlin @ 12:24 am November 11, 2006

I finally started uploading my pictures to Flickr again. It’s funny how having a baby makes you suddenly interested in taking and sharing lots of pictures! Anyway, I went ahead and signed up for the pro account. It’s really a good deal, considering all the bandwidth and storage you get. And frankly, after using Flickr so much, I was kind of starting to feel ashamed of myself for not upgrading. And there was peer pressure I tell you – all the cool kids have pro accounts!

Of course it’s totally possible to do lots of cool, fun things with the free account too – I did for a long time!

Here’s a picture of our little princess dressed as a chicken on Halloween:

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She appears to be a bit pouty in the photo, but she actually was having a really good time. It’s impossible to get this kid to smile in front of a camera!

So what cool things can you do with Flickr? Lots of cool things, and what’s really neat is how elegantly integrated they are with the Flickr interface.

  • You can order prints and pick them up at your local Target store. Just choose the “Order Prints” option when you’re looking at your photos on Flickr (this only works in the US right now).
  • You can order a book, calendar, or other items featuring your photos from Qoop. (I just ordered some books to send my family at Christmas – can’t wait to see how they come out!)
  • You can use your pictures to create personalized postage stamps at Zazzle.
  • You can join groups of similar enthusiasts and share photos with each other.
  • If you’re technical, you can use the Flickr API to create your own nifty app that interfaces with Flickr. All of the awesome tools on fd’s Flickr Toys are a great example of this.

Flickr definitely gets my stamp of approval. Too bad I’m not a better photographer, ha!

Election Day: Go Vote!

Filed under: Politics — groovymarlin @ 9:39 pm November 6, 2006

Tuesday, November 7th, 2006: please vote!

There’s a great story on Daily Kos with information about the many organizations that have been established to monitor the election, including links to report any problems that you encounter at your local polling place. I’ve already seen plenty of rotten shit going down here in Virginia, including annoying/harassing robocalls. And the place where I vote uses those optical scanners that were so easily hacked in the “Hacking Democracy” documentary that just aired on HBO. Comforting!

Here’s a story on ABC about the robocall scam. Funny how it’s always the Republicans who do lame crap like this.

On Tuesday we start over

Filed under: Politics — groovymarlin @ 9:34 am November 4, 2006

In just a few days we’ll be voting in the midterm election. You are registered to vote, right? Before heading to the polls, please watch this video about a dozen times. It really gets the blood pumping.

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