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$100

Filed under: Shopping — groovymarlin @ 2:24 pm May 22, 2007

One meeeeellion dollarsI’ve noticed something strange lately. Any time I go to Target, and that’s often, my total damages are always equal to about $100. It doesn’t really matter what I went into the store for that day, I’m guaranteed to walk out with $100 worth of stuff. Is this a conspiracy on the part of Target? Why do they tempt me so?

I went  to Target on my lunch hour today. Let’s compare my list of things “to buy” to what was actually bought.

On the “to buy” list:
- A wall mirror for my husband’s closet
- Hand sanitizer
- Coke
- A ball for my daughter
- Q-tips

What was actually purchased:
- A canvas storage bin
- A hand mirror for the bathroom
- Q-tips
- A curling iron
- A new powder brush
- Two pairs of toddler shoes
- A Spongebob ball
- A pair of earrings
- A copy of Vanity Fair (magazine)

My total was around $100. What most shocks me, on analyzing both of these lists, is just how many things were on my original list that I didn’t buy. The wall mirror? I decided buying that on my lunch hour was too much of a hassle. Ditto for the Coke. And as far as the hand sanitizer, I really could have taken that off my list because my husband actually bought several bottles of it this morning on his way back from dropping V off at daycare. So out of the original list, only two items were successfully purchased according to plan: the Q-tips and the ball. If I had bought just those two items, my bill probably would have been $5! So that means I spent nearly $95 on impulse purchases.

The impulse purchases:
-  Storage bin: well it looked nice. And I’d been thinking about getting one for my car. Plus it gave me something to carry my other stuff in, since as usual I neglected to get a cart or basket on my way into the store.
- Hand mirror: strictly speaking, I didn’t need this. I already have one, but this one is superior because it can stand up on the counter, and also has a magnifying side. Overall I don’t regret the purchase.
- Curling iron: almost not an impulse buy, because I’d been thinking about getting one for a week or two. I even looked at them in CVS the other day. I’ve been growing my hair out and thought I might need one again at some point (I haven’t actually used a curling iron in about 10 years; I’m hoping the technology has improved somewhat!).
- Powder brush: total impulse. I’ll definitely use it, but I could have made do with what I already have for a while longer.
- Toddler shoes: impulse, but V does need these. She’s quickly outgrowing her soft-soled pre-walkers, and since she’s starting to pull herself up against things we thought she needed some real shoes. I bought two sizes bigger than what I got for her the last time we bought shoes, so she’ll grow into them if necessary.
- Earrings: now I’m ashamed. This was the worst kind of impulse – I don’t need them, I wasn’t looking for them, but I walked past and they were pretty. I blame low blood sugar because I hadn’t eaten yet, and therefore was easily distracted by something shiny!
- Vanity Fair: impulse, but for under $4, who cares? Actually I used to subscribe, and my subscription ran out, and I really wanted to read this article about Bruce Willis, and yadda yadda yadda

Is there a lesson here? Hell I don’t know. Maybe I’m a bit of an impulse shopper, but I’m usually not quite as bad as it seems from this list. Maybe though, I should start limiting my visits to Target!

Spam

Filed under: Rants,Web 2.0 — groovymarlin @ 12:31 pm May 21, 2007

Spam!I swear, comment spam is the new email spam, or something. I may get 50 email spams a day, but luckily Gmail is awesome at catching them and I only ever have to manually flag a few a week. However, comment spam is on the rise at all of my blogs. Akismet has caught 296 for me on this blog alone, just since last fall when I migrated here from Blogger. While Akismet does most of the heavy lifting, I still get a few comments a day that I have to manually flag as spam. It’s not a large investment of time, but I resent it. For one thing, these comment spammers are so relentlessly stupid! I get very low traffic on this site, so they’re really just wasting their time by spamming my comments. And, as I said, I remove all spam pretty quickly, so even the limited exposure they can get is very short-lived. And yet they persist…

I suppose my next option is to enable some kind of captcha or other device that would root out some of the spambots that apparently like my server. What a drag and a hassle. Spammers of the world, to you I say:

STFU

Bliss

Filed under: Web 2.0 — groovymarlin @ 8:55 am May 17, 2007

HappyTwo reasons I am happy today: 1. I’m feeling much, much better. 2. I’m still enjoying looking at my unbelievably HOT new template! I credit number 1 to rest, fluids, and sleep; but the second item is all due to N-Design Studio. This is by far the best blog template I’ve ever used. I don’t care if most people read blogs through some type of RSS feed now, and will basically never see my lovely blog in full color. I look at it every day, because it just makes me happy, like the big, goofy dork that I am. Look at the little green buttons! You can use them to collapse widgets in the sidebar. And yes! You can drag them around and rearrange them! Does anyone really need functionality like that? Not on a personal blog, no, but I have it and I love it!

Seriously though, I have to admit that finally starting to use Widgets with WordPress made my life a hell of a lot easier. I can’t believe that I used to edit my sidebars by hand when I wanted to add something like the Twitter box, the Flickr badge, a list of links…whatever. I (being a serious noob I suppose) had no idea that all of that is 100 times simpler through the use of Widgets. Of course, I did manage to get a lot of experience coding CSS and HTML through all that manual editing and tweaking, which I suppose was good for me. It was painful and frustrating though, and caused me to try and discard many templates that I just couldn’t get to look “right.” Now WordPress 2.2 is out, and it has Widgets built in – you don’t even have to install the plugin anymore. Install or upgrade to 2.2 and Widgets are supported right away, assuming you use a template that also supports them. Then you can browse through the WP Plugins directory and find all the funky Widgets you can handle.

Is this the wave of the future? Our web apps will do all the thinking and designing for us, and we just drag and drop to make things the way we want them? Perhaps, but there will still be technical and design gurus out there, coming up with the pretty things and the cool plugins and the fancy widgets. In the future, I just plan to be more of a savvy user, and less of a frustrated creator-wannabe.

Bleh.

Filed under: Rants — groovymarlin @ 7:31 pm May 15, 2007

Sick!It’s like fate took some cosmic revenge on me for having a relatively good, peaceful weekend: I went to bed Sunday night with a slight tummy ache, and woke up Monday with a full-on intestinal event. My stomache ached, I felt like I was going to vomit, and I got extremely dizzy and thought for sure I would faint every time I got out of bed. Turns out that was because of the 103-degree fever I was sporting. Lovely! So I stayed home from work Monday AND today, writhing in misery for most of the time. To be honest, I really slept almost all day on Monday, though in all-too-brief and unsatisfying 20- to 30-minute increments. My husband, bless his heart, did his best to take care of me, but for some inexplicable reason, his idea of taking care of me involves waking me up every time he comes in the room, for reasons unknown. Sometimes just to ask me if I needed anything. (Hint to husbands: if your wife is really sick, and she’s sleeping, just let her sleep.)

I’m feeling somewhat better now, and I really must go back to work tomorrow, so I’m planning on getting to bed early tonight. Oy vey! Who knows what the hell was wrong with me? It could have been food poisoning, or it certainly could have been whatever the baby had last week. All I know is, for me to go without eating anything for over 24 hours requires a true medical catastrophe,  and I guess that means this event qualifies. I weighed myself this afternoon and I’d lost about seven pounds, no doubt in water weight, but still…wacky.

Happy Mother’s Day

Filed under: Baby — groovymarlin @ 7:51 am May 13, 2007

Well it’s been a busy couple of days in my house. Veronica was sick earlier in the week, but feels better now. She’s so active, we can’t take our eyes off of her for a minute! Yesterday we bought her an early birthday present, this musical table thing for toddlers by Leap Frog. She loves it! It’s noisy as hell but so entertaining to watch her banging on all the buttons and things to make the music play and the lights flash. She’s still not pulling herself up to standing yet, but she pulls up to kneeling, especially with this new toy, and in fact sometimes kneels for 10-15 minutes, then sits back on her heels. It’s adorable. By the time we get to her actual birthday (6/26), she might be walking!

For Mother’s Day, my best friend got me a gift certificate for a facial with our favorite aesthetician. What a treat! She (my friend) obviously also gave my husband a few hints, since he managed to get me a gift certificate for highlights and a cut from my regular stylist. So as soon as I have time to go to the salon and have all that done, I’ll look fabulous! I saw this commercial yesterday that said “40 is the new 20″ and I had to laugh. I think I’d pay just about any price to feel 20 again, but my body says “girl you are dreaming, now wake up.” On the other hand, I thought it wouldn’t be a bad goal to work on myself for the rest of the year and try to feel as close to 20 as I can by the time I turn 40 next January. To that end, my general goals are:

- Lose the baby weight (finally) and get in better shape
- Do the Obagi thing or something to improve my skin (not terrible now, but seeing a little sun damage)
- Expand my mind by learning some new stuff and maybe even taking a class
- Work on eating healthier and cutting back on caffeine and sweets

Lots more to write about, but I’ll save it for now. I’m off to enjoy a beautiful, sunny Mother’s Day. Cheers!

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